How do you ask nicely?


How do you ask nicely?

Here are some better phrases to make polite requests in English:
  1. “Do you mind…?.”
  2. “Would you mind…?
  3. “Could I…?”
  4. “Would it be ok if…?”
  5. “Would it be possible…?”
  6. “Would you be willing to…?”


How do you ask why nicely?

Ask these in place of “Why does this/that matter?” types of questions.
  1. What do you think will happen if we have to delay this/that?
  2. What happens if we don't do this?
  3. How does this/that align with our strategy?
  4. What other ways could this issue be resolved?
  5. What else have you tried/should we try? ( Indirect, but it works)