Do you feed the bartender at a wedding?
Do you feed the bartender at a wedding? The Bartender and Wait Staff Unless it's in the contract, it's not required to feed these people as they work your wedding.
Is it rude to not tip wedding vendors?
It is not mandatory to tip wedding vendors, but the gesture is appreciated. However, some vendors also include gratuities in their service contracts, so they automatically receive tips when you clear the bill.
Do you tip the bartenders at your own wedding?
Tipping your bartender is optional in the same way that remembering someone's name is optional. Sure, it's not required per se, but the type of person who only does what is required probably eats lunch alone with their headphones in.